Here's the update.
About 2500miles of driving. Mostly off road, except to get to where I'm off roading.
I've taken it on more than 25 off road trips since finishing. Overlanding style in a lot of cases. 150 or so miles never touching pavement.
I guess it's a bunch of things i was right about, and things i was wrong about.
First, i was wrong that i would just use it like i had, light trails and dirt roads. Nope, it was such an improvement that more in depth off roading came effortlessly. It's taken a beating off road
On 2 separate outings I've busted out both side windows
i was totally right that this would improve the ride quality. It's better massively on road and even moreso off road in the bumpy rough stuff
I was wrong about the auto 4wd. Turns out (stupidly on my part) that the auto 4wd mostly if not completely actuates in the diff actuator. So it "thinks" auto 4wd is working. But it's the same as being in 4-hi.
I was right on the tire size, it does not rub nearly ever.
I was right about the factory transfer case working perfectly.
I was right that the way i built it, that it would sit level front/rear after it settled.
The factory steps took a beating
I've since added a light bar, and rock sliders
The family is missing the steps. I'll add some bent tube steps that'll double as rub rails. I just don't have time, we've been off roading literally every single weekend. Doesn't leave much time to work on it.