whats the deal with the Ohms that im suppose to check?
You set the multimeter to the diode setting (should look like an arrow) and check for a reading. What that reading is isn't as important as long as there is some value one way and none the other. The way that should have current going through it is when you attach the negative terminal of the multimeter to the cathode (- side of the LED) and the positive to the anode (+ side of the LED).
This isn't easy to know which is the anode and which the cathode, since on an LED bulb there should be 4 contacts, but it's typically the contacts across from each other, so if you turn the bulb with the tip facing down and the wedge facing up, you want to touch bottom left and top right contacts. Then just switch the terminals of the multimeter around and one way should show some voltage and the other shouldn't.
To be honest though, this is a real mystery to me. I'd like to bench test it with 12V and see if it stays lit up. Could be defective bulbs, but given that they stay on and work for some time, then just some of the LEDs stop has me scratching my head.